Positive human qualities - what are they? List with description. Positive character traits in men and women

All people are capable of reading various self-help books that have enough knowledge to help us become wiser in our relationships. However, we are all hampered by the bad, sometimes “poisonous” qualities of our chosen one. We are often afraid to talk to the person who is causing these toxic vibes, and we are even more afraid of having to leave friendships and relationships because of them.

Such “poisonous” qualities manifest themselves in the most various forms and we can see some of these in those people from whom we do not expect this at all. Cute to us and good man on the outside, it becomes an illusion, because on the inside he is completely different. We just have to wait for him to show his true colors.

let's consider five human qualities in relationships that represent general personality traits. It is worth considering that they can be hidden behind a person’s kind smile and successful appearance.

Sometimes you just need to think about the qualities of other people.
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The discussion on this topic began when we collaborated with Kristen Fuller, MD, to hear her talk about her own experiences in similar relationships. She writes: “I was able to avoid “toxic” relationships, but I saw bad qualities in those people who at first glance seemed to me an excellent candidate for the role of the chosen one. For example, a man had everything: a large family, a prestigious education, a successful career, and he seemed to me a very kind person. But I quickly realized that this was all appearance and that it was difficult to avoid emotional torture with people with “toxic” qualities, because outwardly they looked “perfect.” The difficulty was that their true sides could not be seen at first glance.

As the saying goes, “looks can be deceiving”. I learned how important it is to recognize such people at the very beginning of a friendship or relationship with them. I also learned to remove those “terrible” people from my life and appreciate those who, on the contrary, bring positive emotions into it. Ultimately I became strong man and if such people came across my path, I knew what to do in this or that situation.”

Whether in friendships or romantic relationships, most of us cannot see these bad qualities even when interacting with such people. Eat five terrible faces people who poison relationships with them; they are all quite common. These masks can be hidden in people, and it happens that a person has not one, but even many qualities that harm others. The words of Shakespeare come to mind - “Our whole life is a game, and the people in it are actors.”

List of bad qualities in people:

It is necessary to understand what is more important to him, find a reason or simply criticize.
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CRITIC

Have you ever been in a relationship where you were criticized and judged no matter what you did? Criticism is different from regular advice and it is important to understand this difference. For example, let's consider a situation in the life of a person when he was late for a meeting. Lateness negatively affects our professional and personal relationships with people. Always being late is a bad characteristic of a person. However, each of us has made such mistakes and learned from our mistakes. So let's now move on to different versions one situation with a delay.

Scenario #1: You're 15 minutes late for lunch and don't notify your significant other beforehand. She/he gets very angry and instead of asking what happened, she/he automatically starts blaming you. What you hear addressed to you - “You always come late and are always late, I waited for you for a whole 15 minutes, you can never seem to show up on time.”

This is the perfect example of criticism and, more often than not, this person criticizes your every move: “Are you going to wear this?”, “Why don’t you ever...”, “What’s wrong with you...” and the list goes on. As a result, you constantly feel guilty because “you can never do anything right,” no matter how hard you try.

...criticizes out of habit.
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Scenario #2: You're 15 minutes late for lunch and don't notify your significant other beforehand. Your partner is angry, but instead of criticizing, he tells you - “I notice that you are late quite often. Maybe you have some reasons?. This is an example of your spouse trying to find out the reason why you are behaving incorrectly. Instead of blaming a specific individual, he or she seeks the reason for the action.

Critic can bring a lot of harm to your relationship. Critics never call you offensive names, but they may constantly insult your beliefs, your appearance, or your thoughts. Often, this happens because they have low self-esteem and want to control everything. Instead of trying to improve some of your bad habits, these people actually stop you from growing as a person.

An example of such criticism can be seen when one parent says to a child, “You are a bad boy/girl,” instead of saying, “You did a bad thing.”

PASSIVE AGGRESSOR

We all have passive-aggressive people around us. The passive aggressor is one of the most terrible characteristics. You will always feel bad with such a person.

Passive aggression is a bad human quality
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Let's consider the scenario of one of the situations:

You did something wrong and your other half was upset after that. However, you are not entirely sure that this is the problem with his condition. And then you start asking him why he is angry or sad, because you could eliminate this mistake in the future if it is your fault. However, despite all your attempts to get to the truth, your partner does not tell the real reason and denies everything with the phrases “ I'm fine", « I'm not upset, everything is fine«.

This can lead to you exhausting yourself wondering why he has this condition and what he is hiding under the real reasons for resentment or even anger. You can spend countless hours trying to read a person's mind, but nothing will come of it and you will only waste your nerves.

If a person cannot communicate in a way you understand, uses sarcasm as a defense mechanism, sends mixed messages, or does anything to avoid showing their true emotions, you are dealing with a passive-aggressive personality. Keep in mind that passive aggression is a passive expression of anger.

NARCISSISTIC

Such a person acts as if he or she is God's gift to this universe. He is the best at everything, knows absolutely everything and is not afraid to tell you anything. No matter how smart and experienced you are, you will never be on equal terms with this person - he will not allow you to. Like the passive-aggressive trait, narcissism is considered a personality disorder and is a very bad trait.

Narcissism is one of the bad qualities of people
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Narcissistic people tend to put themselves on a pedestal and look down on you. You may feel like you are constantly competing with this person, no matter the circumstances. Narcissists are often unwilling to compromise, lack understanding and empathy, and crave to always be the center of attention. They may even ruin special occasions for you, such as your birthday or promotion at work, all in order to be the center of attention. And they don't care that it's your time to enjoy attention or fame.

The tale of Narcissus from ancient Greek and Roman mythology helps us better understand the characteristics of narcissists. If you remember the description of the work, it describes how Narcissus looked into the water and saw beautiful flower instead of yourself. He was surprised. Narcissistic people are often full of hatred. They are ready to destroy everything around them if they feel hurt or rejected by others.

"STONE WALL"

Many people may have heard of a “stone wall.” This is the kind of person who refuses to engage in conversation or share his feelings when he has problems. Such people constantly dodge questions, making the interlocutor feel that he is not worthy of honest communication. Such a “stony” person may talk to you coldly and refuse to admit that something has happened to him, or he needs someone’s help.

Diversity
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Frequent failures from sincere communication create negative emotions on the path to future successful communication. Additionally, this type of behavior from people can make you feel resentful or guilty. If you are trying to communicate with such a person and feel that they do not want to be open with you, then you should think about whether you need such a relationship.

ANTI-SOCIAL PERSONALITY

Antisocial personality disorder includes traits sociopath (considered to be the result of social conditions such as childhood abuse, characterized by explosive and sometimes aggressive behavior, but supposedly has the capacity for empathy and remorse) And psychopath, who supposedly feels no remorse or empathy, takes advantage of other people and often engages in fraud or crime with various motives including greed and revenge. The etiology of psychopathic behavior is believed to be genetic or congenital.

We all have tendencies for different personality traits. We all have temptation and may see some of ourselves in the behavior of an antisocial personality. We can also forgive and even welcome such people by imagining ourselves in their place. However, psychopaths are psychological chameleons who influence the necessary emotional part in order to manipulate every situation and other people for money, sex, power, ego satisfaction, etc. They are usually such professionals that their victims themselves do not know what is happening.

This psychological predatory behavior can only be prevented by a skilled person. It is not surprising that most people do not even suspect that such people exist in their environment until it is too late. A psychopath's "love" is mostly a lie and is for the control, flattery, and power that lie hidden beneath his mask.

RESULT

If you are in a relationship with someone who has any of these personality traits, it would be wise for you to spend time thinking about how you feel with that person. This is exactly what Kristen did, gaining enormous insight into the essence of human relationships.

Character is the manifestation of an emotional reaction in a person’s behavior in various relationships and specific situations. The character of a certain person and all his particular manifestations of qualities are a consequence of upbringing and living conditions in a social society.

Of course, individual adjustments and various life circumstances influence human psychology, but the formation and development of higher mental functions and genetic characteristics are laid down and formed in the womb, so when a person is born, he shows his individual characteristics almost from the first days. Any person can be characterized and assigned a certain personality type.

Also, you can pay attention to the manifestation of characteristic typical features of different peoples, i.e. exist general definitions specific nationalities. For example, the character of the Russian is clearly different from other national mentalities.

Temperament of a Russian person:

“Breadth and generosity of soul”, which is absent among most peoples.
Patience, perseverance and endurance.
Craving for justice and compassion.
Among the negative ones: laziness, pessimism, hypocrisy and foul language.

It is easy to identify a Russian person by temperament; foreign nations associate a Russian person as someone who loves to go out in a big way; they have always been amazed by the generosity, resilience and dedication of the Russian people. Only a Russian person has an original sense of humor, which bewilders his foreign brothers. Many foreign men believe that a Russian woman is the best companion for life, as she has responsiveness, humanity, loyalty and compassion.

Also, a significant barrier for foreigners is learning the Russian language; it is considered the most difficult due to excessive emotionality and double meaning of the same words. The qualities in people of the Russian type, their attitude towards other people in the social environment, are more inclined to honor religious traditions. The attitude towards Christianity and the observance of religious rituals begin with the origins of the formation of the Slavic race.

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Individual characteristics in people, identifying their signs are an indicator of the true face of a Russian person, what qualities and abilities can manifest themselves in non-standard situations in social society. The psychology of the Russian person, flexibility of mind, extraordinary endurance, selflessness, love for the fatherland, and manifestation of compassion have more than once convinced opponents of their strength and steadfastness.

Classification of character traits

Character traits
Emotional	Strong-willed	Moral	Intelligent
Emotionality	Perseverance	Honesty	Curiosity
Cheerfulness	Independence	Responsiveness	Quick wit
Impressionability	Uncertainty	Kindness	Resourcefulness
	Determination	Cruelty	frivolity
	Courage		Thoughtfulness

The psychology of varying degrees of manifestation of the character of each person is individual and is formed throughout life, changing depending on the social environment. There is a certain classification into which a particular person can be classified.

List of manifestations in human behavior and assessment of qualities in social situations.

Volitional qualities are features of the properties of a particular person that manifest themselves in non-standard situations (restraint, patience, stubbornness, courage, cowardice, courage, discipline, etc.)
Emotional manifestations are the duration of mental processes in a certain person in specific situations (negative, positive, dynamic, neutral, statistical, unconventional).
Intellectual characteristics of an individual person, the quality of a person’s thinking (breadth, depth, flexibility, criticality, stupidity, etc.)

List of manifestations of human qualities

Attitude to the surrounding world is divided into four types:

I am good - everyone is good.
I am good - everyone is bad.
I'm bad - everyone is good.
I am bad - everyone is bad.
Attitude towards one’s personality (self-respect, self-criticism, arrogance, self-esteem, etc.).
Attitude to work (laziness, hard work, accuracy, tolerance, negligence, punctuality, responsibility, etc.).
Attitudes in groups of the social environment (sociability, isolation, truthfulness, deceitfulness, politeness, rudeness, etc.).

Types of human temperament

Temperament is the constant characteristics of the individual behavior of a particular person, which are equally manifested in various activities. There are four types whose definitions are:

A sanguine person is distinguished by increased mobility, efficiency, pronounced facial emotional manifestations in facial expression, responsiveness, sociability, poise, optimism, cheerful disposition, rapid fatigue from hard work, carelessness.
Choleric – sudden changes in mood, short temper, hysteria, quick response, impetuosity, outbursts of anger.
Melancholic – anxiety, pessimism, vulnerability, excessive worries about any reason, restraint, self-control, lack of trust in others.
Phlegmatic - cold-blooded, low activity, prudence, creates the impression of a wise person, always gets things done.

Human temperaments. 4 types of temperament: choleric, sanguine, melancholic, phlegmatic

Manifestations of character traits in men and women

Manifestation of character traits in men

The same character trait in men and women, their attitude to actions manifests itself in different emotional reactions, causing completely different feelings.

For example, a woman’s touchiness manifests itself in a man in the form of angry outbursts.

Women are characterized by manifestations of excessive emotionality, sensitivity, understanding and compassion; practicality, they are more susceptible to sudden changes in mood. The psychology of men, their attitude to values, is based on restraint and the desire for power and leadership. Each period of an era is characterized by the presence of certain qualities in men and women.

Manifestation of character traits in women

So, for example, the qualities in modern people have minor differences; associations of male and female professions are increasingly being formed. Today it is not uncommon to find the fair half of humanity driving, and a man being a stylist, hairdresser or conductor, which several decades ago would have greatly surprised them.

The main character traits of a person are the prevailing stable, innate or acquired qualities that are constantly manifested in the behavior of an individual. Having found out what signs correspond to a certain person, you can create psychological picture, attitude and opinion about him, as well as assign a type of temperament (choleric, sanguine, melancholic, phlegmatic).

Classify which individual qualities are characteristic in order to determine positive and negative character traits and draw general conclusions. This will help, for example, when applying for a job, in choosing a position, and sometimes in choosing a life partner, by determining the criteria that you value.

Negative and positive human character traits

The psychology of any person is the continuous formation of character qualities, depending on what conditions, therefore it is common for him to exhibit negative traits, they can change depending on what conditions, for the worse or for the better.

There are also constant negative qualities that appear in an individual person, which do not change throughout life.

Negative character traits cannot always be regarded as negative; their characteristics and qualities can emphasize advantages:

Self-confidence - self-satisfaction, can provoke a craving for performance and improved performance, to realize self-satisfaction.
Stubbornness provokes the achievement of the goals set for oneself.
Selfishness - ignoring others is bad, but trying to please others is not always beneficial. Sometimes you need to think about yourself in order to be able to help others.
Envy, for some people, can provoke them to want to achieve a better result than others.

There are such character traits in people as cruelty, deceit, hypocrisy, laziness, stinginess, rudeness, gloominess, etc., which will never provoke them to good deeds.

Positive and negative character traits are present to a greater or lesser extent in every person. Positive ones can cover up negative character traits of an individual. For example, people can be lazy, but good-natured, or selfish, but neat and hardworking, rude, but sympathetic and generous, etc.

List of positive qualities and their signs:

Endurance and patience.
Gratitude and morality.
Initiative and originality.
Cheerfulness and talent.
Sensitivity and optimism, etc.

The main character traits of women

List of predominant qualities and their distinctive properties:

The main character traits in men

List of predominant qualities and their properties:

4 main psychotypes of personality. How to determine and recognize a person’s character?

Every person is unique to one degree or another. What makes him like this? These are features of his appearance, and, of course, traits of his character. The qualities of a person, the list of which can be continued for a very long time, are what ensure his individuality, allow him not to get lost in the crowd, to be different from the rest.

It’s simply impossible to count them all. Should only a person's good qualities be considered? The list of qualities that make us a person should actually reflect all the negative things that manifest themselves in our characters. Agree, sinless people did not exist, do not exist and will never exist. It is necessary to give an adequate assessment of people, understanding that each of them combines both good and bad.

Human qualities: list

Why make lists of anything at all? At least because they help to understand and analyze a lot. The point is that the qualities of a person, a list of which we will compile in one way or another, will help us analyze ourselves, as well as those around us. Remember that you can develop yourself in almost any way in this life. Find your weak points and make them strong, discover flaws and get rid of them once and for all.

Positive human qualities: list

There are a lot of them, even more than one could imagine. Some of them help us communicate and interact with people, others allow us to work well, and there are also those that make it possible to achieve our goals, ignoring obstacles. Of course, we cannot list all of them, but we will still outline the main ones:

kindness. There are good people in this world, but, unfortunately, they are not so often to be found. There is kindness in each of us. The problem is that the crazy pace of life does not always provide the opportunity to express it. Modern man- egocentric, focused on his goals. You need to find something good and good in yourself, develop it, and help it appear in other people;
gaiety. The great classic called this quality outstanding. Why is it so good? The fact that a cheerful person is able to lift the spirits of everyone around him, help get rid of unnecessary thoughts, and set the right mood in life. A good life is for those who can enjoy life without any special reasons, but just like that;
determination. It manifests itself in perseverance in achieving goals. Its owners can consider themselves lucky;
courage, bravery, determination. These and other similar qualities make us truly independent. The lack of fear in some people is astonishing. Yes, it’s not easy to overcome;
attentiveness, ability to empathize. These are also positive qualities. Their owners easily come into contact with people, as they are able to share their problems.

Negative human qualities: list

There are many of them, it’s difficult to get rid of them, everyone has them. Don't believe me? Then check out the list below. If you find something in your home, immediately take measures to get rid of it.

These are the qualities:

anger;
laziness;
stinginess;
envy;
cowardice;
diffidence;
indecision;
aggression;
isolation;
timidity and so on.

By studying the personality of a person, be it a woman, a man or a child, one can always identify a bad tendency to unseemly behavior due to, for example, errors in upbringing or psychological trauma. But even bad heredity can be protected. Let's consider the main negative traits of human character.

Authoritarianism

The desire to dominate in everything, ignoring any needs of other people. An explicit or hidden demand for submission and discipline from everyone with whom a person intersects. Other people's opinions are not taken into account, any disobedience is suppressed without an attempt to find a mutually beneficial solution. It is believed that this is a typical negative trait of the Russian character.

Aggressiveness

The desire to conflict with others. IN early childhood This is a mandatory negative character trait of a child learning ways to protect his interests. Provocative, sometimes deliberately false statements, elevated tone, and insults are typical for an aggressive adult. Sometimes attempts are made to influence the opponent physically.

Gambling

A painful desire to achieve a set goal, regardless of the size of the risks, ignoring one’s own and others’ logical arguments about the excess of the amount of spending over the value of the desired result. Often causes situations leading to death, loss of health or significant financial losses.

Greed

Pathological desire for personal material gain in any situation. Getting profit at any cost becomes the only source of positive emotions in life. At the same time, the duration of pleasant sensations from the benefits received is extremely short-lived - due to the uncontrollable constant desire to enrich oneself even more.

Apathy

Lack of emotional response to most external stimuli due to a particular temperament or due to the body’s protective reaction to stress. It is one of the reasons for the impossibility of achieving even simple goals due to the inability or unwillingness to concentrate and make volitional efforts.

Disorderly

Negligent fulfillment of obligations due to unwillingness to act according to rules already known to everyone or lack of understanding of the algorithms necessary to quickly and least costly achieve existing goals. Often this is a typical negative character trait of a woman who has just escaped from excessive parental care.

Indifference

A real or consciously demonstrated lack of interest in a specific subject, object, event, responsibilities due to innate emotional coldness, experienced severe stress or, instilled from infancy, a sense of superiority over people with a different social status, a different faith, nationality, race.

Irresponsibility

A consciously chosen, imposed during upbringing or conditioned by moral immaturity position of refusal to real awareness of the consequences of one’s own actions, reluctance to make decisions that affect one’s own and others’ quality of life. In difficult everyday situations, active actions are not taken due to the expectation that the problem will resolve on its own.

Facelessness

The absence of individual traits, which is why an individual subject is easily “lost” in the general mass of people like him. In the process of communication, the “gray man” does not evoke sympathy due to his fixation on uninteresting topics; in a team he is uninitiative, boring, afraid of innovations and resists them in every possible way.

Ruthlessness

Emotional indifference to other people's troubles, inability or unwillingness to sympathize, sympathize with people in particular and living beings in general, experiencing physical or emotional pain. Sometimes it is deliberate inhumanity in actions that lead to suffering and even death of the objects chosen as victims.

Rudeness

Intentional or unconscious violation of norms, the sequence of actions adopted in a given society in relation to a specific situation. The reason for deliberate cheekiness may be the desire to provoke a conflict or draw attention to one’s own person, unconsciously - errors in upbringing, emotional immaturity.

Talkativeness

A painful need to constantly participate in a dialogue with one or more interlocutors, regardless of the content of the conversation, the degree of enthusiasm of the other participants, or the relevance of the conversation. The main goal of such an interlocutor is not to receive new information, and the role of the narrator when contacting someone. At the same time, he can disseminate information that others would prefer to keep secret.

windiness

Inability to keep any promises and take into account other people's interests, lack of ability to move for a long time to achieve one goal, desire for constant change of circle of friends and partners. Lack of principles and clear behavioral boundaries, rapid fading of interest in a specific activity or person.

Lust for power

A passionate desire for control over everyone and the expectation of unquestioning obedience, the desire for unlimited power, especially over the more educated and skilled. Intoxication with one’s own superior position in situations where others are forced to seek help or seek protection or material support.

Suggestibility

In pathological form, this is a subconscious tendency to perceive behavior imposed from outside without one’s own conscious comprehension and weighing the results of one’s actions performed under the influence of someone else’s authority. However, reduced suggestibility can cause learning difficulties.

Vulgarity

Inability to find a balance between originality and vulgarity in communication, when choosing clothes, social guidelines, and so on. For example, during a dialogue, the interlocutor speaks in a raised tone, is mannered, and does not disdain dirty jokes. When choosing an outfit, he prefers flashy things, and the components often do not fit well with each other.

Stupidity

The inability or unwillingness to determine logically correct conclusions even from the simplest everyday problems, the tendency to see the grain of wisdom in pseudoscientific and populist statements, the inability to subject information from sources that are independently elevated to the status of authoritative to a reasonable critical analysis.

Pride

Confidence in the social, moral, mental insignificance of others, the inability to forgive for personal and other people’s mistakes, denial of the possibility of other subjects of society having worthy characteristics. It develops against the background of distortions in upbringing, personality degradation due to illness, immaturity of the individual, coupled with high social status.

Coarseness

Reluctance to adhere to the polite format of communication with interlocutors accepted in normal society due to personality deformation due to illness, injury, stress or the frequent need to take a defensive position when territory and rights are encroached upon. Typical manifestations: communication in a raised voice, rudeness, obscene language.

Greed, stinginess

The desire to minimize costs even at the expense of health, basic hygiene and common sense. A pathological pursuit of material stability can manifest itself in the form of a refusal to get rid of garbage, junk, or ignoring reasonable requests from a loved one to purchase essentials.

Cruelty

The desire to cause discomfort to living subjects for the sake of personal moral satisfaction. The impact on the victim can be both intangible - in the form of insults and refusal to satisfy some important emotional needs, and physical - through infliction of pain, torment, and encroachment on life.

Forgetfulness

Inability to remember some data necessary in everyday life, a combination of actions to achieve a certain goal, an algorithm for starting or turning off a device. It occurs due to age-related changes in the brain and information overload. It may be a consequence of a stressful situation that you want to forget.

Addiction

The desire to derive pleasure from performing actions or using a certain substance, even if the source of pleasant emotions harms health, relationships with others, leads to large financial expenses, pushes to crime due to the desire to achieve a “high”, in the absence of legal access to it.

Envy

Inability to enjoy any personal benefits, achievements, qualities. The tendency to constantly compare the values of oneself and others. Moreover, the “crumbs” on the other side always seem larger, tastier and more desirable than their own “placers”. In a pathological form, it deprives one of cheerfulness and the ability to soberly evaluate one’s own and others’ merits.

Complexity

Constant belittlement in one’s own eyes of one’s own natural talents, trained abilities, denial of the value of personal achievements, inability to force oneself to declare personal achievements in a circle of authority figures. Formed due to overly strict upbringing, psychological trauma or illness nervous system.

tediousness

The habit of lecturing everyone, everywhere, repeatedly discussing the same topic, despite the obvious lack of interest in it among the people who are trying to be drawn into dialogue. The reason lies in the pathological love of attention and endless conversations on any topic, even if the instigator of the conversation is a complete layman on the topic being discussed.

Anger

An emotional manifestation of strong dissatisfaction with something, a landmark indicating the presence of clearly uncomfortable conditions for a person. In the absence of actions that eliminate the cause of the feeling, over time it can push one to commit an offense, so manifestations of anger should not be ignored.

Spoiled

A bad habit is to demand the fulfillment of your desire as soon as possible, without taking into account the capabilities of the person to whom the claim is made. Refusal to control and restrain one's own needs, to tolerate the slightest inconvenience, and to personally exert emotional and physical effort to achieve what one wants.

Laziness

Lack of desire to strain for personal needs, tendency to spend idle time all day long. The behavior reveals a desire to obtain comfort at the expense of the work of others, a deep aversion to useful activities even in minimal quantities. When applying for a job, this negative character trait should not be indicated on your resume.

Deceit

Consciously systematically expressing false information to interlocutors for slanderous purposes, for one’s own benefit or to disguise personal failures in some activity. The pathological form is inherent in insecure individuals who try to impress others with fictitious stories about themselves.

Hypocrisy

Feigned assurances of love, sincere admiration and goodwill towards the interlocutor during a conversation with him. The purpose of such behavior is ingratiation and the desire to flatter for one’s own benefit, while hiding true, perhaps even malicious, sentiments towards the participant in the dialogue or the object of the conversation.

Flattery

A tendency to excessively constantly praise out loud the real and imaginary merits and virtues of others, for the sake of one’s own self-interest. The object of exaltation can also be obviously negative actions, the actions of an influential person, specially whitewashed by the flatterer and voiced by him as the only correct solution in the situation under consideration.

Curiosity

In a pathological form, this is the desire to find out information of interest, regardless of decency, personal feelings of those being questioned and the situation of the situation in which communication takes place. The reason for unhealthy curiosity is a painful desire to be aware of even those events that are not related to the person showing interest.

Pettiness

The habit of attaching great importance to one’s insignificant statements and actions. The widespread emphasis on one's imaginary achievements as opposed to the truly important and heroic actions of those around them. Attention to ordinary details to the detriment of values, the desire to obtain reports on household expenses down to “one thousandth”.

Vindictiveness

The tendency to focus personal attention on all small and large troubles, everyday conflicts, and invented grievances, in order to be sure to repay each of the offenders a hundredfold over time. In this case, the duration of the time interval from the moment of receiving a real or imaginary insult does not matter.

Impudence

Unceremonious behavior in any situation, the desire to achieve what you want with minimal costs and “over the heads” of others. Such behavior is formed due to improper upbringing, due to a difficult childhood or, conversely, due to spoiling, which has reinforced the habit of always getting what you want at any cost.

Arrogance

The perception of the majority of others as subjects of an obviously lower category due to an imaginary difference in social status or real differences in material, national, racial or other characteristics. The reason may be a defensive reaction to wounded pride in the past or distortions in upbringing.

Annoyance

Inability or unwillingness to independently deal with emerging problems, have fun or relax. The reason may lie in emotional immaturity, fear of loneliness, desire to increase self-esteem by active participation in the lives of other people, even if they experience obvious discomfort from this and openly declare it.

Narcissism

Unreasonable and groundless praise of oneself, narcissism under any circumstances, the desire to embellish the results of one’s actions and the actions taken themselves, selfishness, indifferent attitude not only towards strangers, but also close people, interest only in personal comfort and benefit.

Negligence

Reluctance to qualitatively fulfill assumed or assigned obligations, neglect in behavior with people in everyday or professional relationships, insufficient attention to trusted values, inability - due to poor education or personal deformation - to understand the importance of diligence when working on something.

Touchiness

Increased negative reaction to everyday troubles due to hypertrophied selfishness. It is because of him that you want the world to spin at your feet, and those around you, forgetting about their own needs, to live up to your expectations around the clock and all year round: they were polite, generous and caring, and strived to ensure the comfort of others.

Limitation

Confidence that a true picture of the world is accessible only to you, and other explanations of the structure of the universe and the principles of interaction between man and environment- a complete invention of narrow-minded louts. It occurs due to insufficient education, a congenital developmental defect that prevents the adequate assimilation of educational information.

Alarmism

The tendency to accept as reality the imaginary catastrophic consequences of any, even minor incidents in own life and the world in general. It is a manifestation of bad upbringing by a reinsurer, an overly violent fantasy or a disorder of the nervous system due to stress or illness.

vulgarity

A penchant for pretentious outfits, demonstration of real or ostentatious material security through the acquisition of unnecessary luxury items. Or, and sometimes both, a passion for dirty jokes, obscene anecdotes, often voiced in a completely inappropriate environment for the sake of causing a feeling of awkwardness among the majority of listeners.

Irritability

A negative reaction to a stimulus, expressed in excessive expression of emotions, the intensity of which does not correspond to the strength of the influence of a factor that is unpleasant for some reason. The cause of irritability can be external or internal, caused by overload of the nervous system or exhaustion of the body by illness.

Extravagance

Inability to rationally spend income, including the desire to systematically or constantly make acquisitions for the sake of the process itself, and not for the purpose of exploiting the purchased item or thing. It is based on the desire to feel like “the ruler of the world”, to correspond to the status of a financially secure person.

Jealousy

Showing dissatisfaction or distrust of a subject who has a certain value for the jealous person. It is expressed by suspicion of infidelity or a greater emotional predisposition towards another person (not only a spouse, but also a mother, sister, friend may be in the place of the accused - the list can be endless).

Self-criticism

The habit of justifiably and unreasonably convicting oneself of many sins of varying magnitude. For example, insufficient attention to fulfilling duties, although in reality a person gives his all at work or in relationships. Possible reasons: low self-esteem, actively supported by an interested environment, perfectionism.

Self-confidence

Unreasonable exaltation of one's abilities, supposedly allowing one to cope with a certain or any task. It is the cause of bragging and risky actions, often committed in disregard of safety rules, the laws of physics and the arguments of logic. Based on inexperience, dependence on the desire to live on the brink of a foul.

Weakness

Lack of ability to perform volitional effort for the sake of a desired goal or to resist dangerous, illegal temptations, morally degraded individuals. Tendency to submit to other people's decisions, even when they require serious sacrifices. Such a negative character trait of a man can make him an object of ridicule in the team.

Cowardice

The inability to resist an opponent due to insufficiently developed willpower and susceptibility to phobia. It can be expressed by fleeing the scene of some event due to an imaginary or real danger to one’s own health or life, despite leaving other possible participants in the incident in danger.

Vanity

The desire to receive praise for real and imaginary merits. The desire first of all to have a positive image, and not to be worthy of compliments. Indiscriminate quality of voiced approvals - flattery is also perceived favorably. Moreover, it is not always possible to distinguish it from sincere statements.

Stubbornness

The desire to act only in accordance with one’s own ideas about the correctness of the chosen path, rejection of authorities, ignoring well-known rules purely because of the habit of acting as one has decided. Lack of ability to be flexible when interests clash, unwillingness or inability to take into account the goals and capabilities of others.

Selfishness

Conscious self-love, the desire to live in comfort, regardless of the possible inconveniences resulting from this for others. Their own interests are always exalted above the desires of other people, the opinions of the latter on this and other matters are never taken into account. All decisions are based only on one’s own benefit.

Each person has his own character. And the characters of men and women are generally different. What positive human qualities are inherent in women and men? How do the same qualities manifest themselves in representatives of the strong and weak half of humanity?

Man, as a creature of nature, is represented as a special, multifaceted creature. He is able to think, analyze, feel, perform actions and various actions that bring benefit and harm to both himself and the world around him.

His behavior is influenced by concepts such as morality and ethics. All this creates the character of homo sapiens, makes a person human.

What is character

A person’s character is a set of stable mental processes (properties) that influence his behavior and are manifested in his actions. Each of us has our own set of qualities that drive different actions.

Some character traits depend on the type of nervous system, others are formed under the influence of the environment.

Each person has his own set of qualities, the list of which includes positive and negative traits. They are formed under the influence of surrounding people and life circumstances.

Depending on the state of the environment, society and the degree of its influence on the individual, good and bad character traits may prevail in people.

The presence and superiority of certain qualities in human character depends on many indicators: temperament, family, faith, geography of residence and, of course, gender.

A man and a woman are different not only in their external appearance, but also in their behavior patterns, which are influenced by their internal motivation. The description of the “correct” qualities of both sexes shows the similarities and differences in their characters.

Positive human qualities

The division into negative and positive qualities of a person occurs under the influence of public assessment. People themselves determine: “what is good and what is bad.”

What brings benefits, material and spiritual benefits, pleasure and joy, pleasant emotions, is considered good.

A person whose character contains many positive qualities is a role model. However, it is known that “there are no bad people.” This means that the division into “+” and “-” qualities is conditional. Everything depends on the system of relations between the individual and society.

In accordance with these indicators, 4 groups of character traits can be distinguished(since we are talking about positive qualities, in each group only they will be indicated and their list can be continued) :

Attitude to society, to the team: sociability, collectivism, sensitivity, responsiveness, respect for people, kindness, goodwill.
Attitude to activity: hard work, conscientiousness, diligence, discipline, responsibility, perseverance in achieving goals.
Attitude towards yourself: self-esteem, modesty, pride, self-criticism, honesty.
Attitude to things: thrift, accuracy, generosity, selflessness.

Each person has certain traits that predominate, which makes him different from others. The personal merits of some people make others admire them and follow their example.

Manifestation of character traits in men and women

Women	Men
Sociability
· by nature more sociable; · can talk for a long time, about anything and with anyone; · make verbal contact easily and quickly. The topic of conversation doesn't matter.	talk more to the point and to the point with people they know; narrow range of topics; They have a harder time starting a conversation and quickly stop it if they are not interested in it.
Responsiveness
easily agree to requests for help and provide it to the best of their ability and ability	responsiveness is combined with rationalism: how to help with maximum benefit for the one receiving help.
Kindness
· manifests itself to everyone: animals, children, old people, men; · borders on sacrifice.	selective, well thought out, rational;
Caring for others
is present in everyone without exception and finds manifestation in children, men, parents, and in housework	sincere empathy and care for relatives and strangers; manifested in earning money and providing for the family.
Determination
often commit aimless actions, but they always know what they want, but more on an intuitive level	The ability to clearly imagine and formulate goals, determine ways to achieve them and achieve implementation
Discipline
are distinguished by good performance and discipline at any age	a quality characteristic of most adult men, but not boys
Hard work
“bee”, “spinning like a squirrel in a wheel”, can simultaneously perform various tasks (especially around the house)	most are hardworking, but focused on solving one practical problem
Accuracy
An important quality that everyone has	the majority are not careful in dressing or eating, as they consider this to be of secondary importance: “tanks are not afraid of dirt”
Thrift - Generosity
spenders with money, but thrifty with things; generosity manifests itself in emotions and feelings	they know the value of the money they earn, so they try to be thrifty; generosity is balanced and rational. A generous man is always adored by women
Loyalty
Typical for most loving ladies. In women, fidelity is correlated with devotion	men are polygamous, so being faithful to one woman is nonsense for some of them. However, many of them are monogamous

Thus, the same character traits can manifest themselves differently in men and women. But among the set of qualities there are those that relate only to the weaker half and those that courageous people possess.

The main features of women

Female intuition. A woman’s feelings, her understanding and analysis pass through her heart, which reverently perceives the surroundings and evaluates them. She often avoids doing certain things without thinking about anything. Something just stops her, as if she is saving her for her children, her husband, her parents, for whom she is support and support.
Patience. A woman is able to withstand any pain, physical and moral, moral humiliation and the whims of a man. IN family life women's patience and wisdom are especially important, as they save a marriage.

Tenderness, softness, sensuality, love are mandatory feminine qualities. They are inherent in every representative of the fairer sex. They force men to do things and support them in difficult times.
Empathy- a quality that does not allow a woman to pass by and not support someone in need of help, which leads to sincere compassion.
Romance. Every woman who dreams of a “prince on a white horse” and “has her head in the clouds” with “rose-colored glasses” has this trait.
Meekness, the ability to remain silent when there is “thunder and lightning” overhead, the ability to endure the anger and indignation of a man.
Mysteriousness. Every woman must have a secret that cannot be comprehended by a man. If a woman is an “open book”, she loses interest from the stronger sex.

Feminine weakness. The powerlessness of the fairer sex is manifested not in what she does, but in what she is capable of. Many women having a strong character, keep it secret and don’t show it to anyone. But at the right moment, perseverance and will manifest themselves, which come as a surprise to others.

The main features of men

Masculinity, strength, courage, the ability to perform actions - these are purely masculine qualities that make him attractive in the eyes of a woman.
Perseverance and determination, pragmatism and the ability to achieve one’s own are character traits of a strong-willed person capable of creating. It is a man’s creativity that allows him to create new cities and establish connections.
Dedication- a quality that moves the stronger sex to exploits and accomplishments at the cost of their lives.

Responsibility. Most men do not think about themselves, but about their children, wives, and loved ones. This makes them reliable and able to protect what is truly dear to them.
Liberty- one of the traits that allows a man to realize himself in life and for which they stand to the last. For each of them, internal and external freedom is important, which gives him many opportunities.
Bigness of thinking and independence in decision making make a man strong and self-confident, capable of making discoveries and making progress.
A sharp mind and a special sense of humor- qualities that help others in good time and in difficult times.

Here are the basic qualities characteristic of representatives of different sexes, but there are much more differences.